Hugh Hefner's widow Crystal has debunked some misconceptions about him by telling the world that he was a terrible sexual partner.
Crystal opened up about her sex life with the late Hugh Hefner in her newly published memoir, “Say Only Good Things: Surviving Playboy and Finding Yourself.'' She accused Hefner of never kissing or showing any intimacy or romance in her bedroom. “He seemed less sexually savvy than some of the teenage boys I had been with years before,” she writes in her book. people Wednesday's story.
HOLLYWOOD, CA – APRIL 28: Playboy founder Hugh Hefner (left) and fiance Crystal Harris attend the TCM Classic Film Festival Opening Ceremony held at Grauman's Chinese Theater on April 28, 2011. Attended the night gala and the world premiere of the movie “An American in Paris.'' Hollywood, California. (Photo by Frederick M. Brown/Getty Images)
Crystal was closely involved with Hefner for a total of nine years. When she first met him, she was 21 years old and he was 60 years older.
She quickly quashed people's notions that Hef was getting rough in bed while having sexual encounters with Playboy bunnies.
“It was clear that Hef had never in his life thought about how to please other people,” she says.
“I think when you have a lot of money and power and a lot of 'yeses' around you, people just stick to their own stories in their heads. And others just follow suit,” she said.
She stressed that she was not sexually satisfied during her time with Hefner and that he simply could not satisfy her in bed.
LOS ANGELES, CA – OCTOBER 24: Models Crystal Hefner (L) and Hugh Hefner attend the annual event hosted by Playboy and Hugh Hefner at the Playboy Mansion on October 24, 2015 in Los Angeles, California. Attended a Halloween party. (Photo by Charlie Galley/Getty Images for Playboy)
“It was as if Hef was just going through the motions of something that used to be fun and sexy,” she wrote.
She described her sex with Hefner as “bizarre” and “robotic,” adding, “It was about power and control and influence. It was a performance. I was auditioning for a role.”
Crystal noted that Hef never made eye contact with her during sex, choosing instead to stare at the ceiling, where a mirror was mounted above his head.
She said that how people perceived life at the Playboy Mansion was not an accurate reflection of how things unfolded.
“It was a well-planned, well-rehearsed series of events,” she wrote in her book, according to People magazine.
HOLLYWOOD – APRIL 22: Playboy magazine owners Hugh Hefner and Crystal Harris attend the newly restored movie Star at Grauman's Chinese Theater on April 22, 2010 in Hollywood, California. Arriving at the TCM Classic Film Festival Gala Opening Night World Premiere of “Birth''. (Photo by Alberto E. Rodriguez/Getty Images)
“Pick some girls from the party and raise them. Change them into work uniforms, silk pajamas. Dim the lights. Music. Porn. Give them a pot. Then it's sex.”
Krystal revealed that sex with Hefner stopped in 2014. (Related article: 'I just wanted to be first and finish': Bridget Marquardt talks about sexual encounter with Hugh Hefner)
“And I was relieved. No more bringing girls home, no more performances,” she said.
“For years, I have continued to present the Playboy Playmate for Hef and for the public.”
