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Sometimes, it feels impossible not to harbor some negativity. America doesn’t seem like a great place anymore. It’s like watching a once-thriving nation turn into something unrecognizable—a struggling figure, losing its essence. Economically and politically, there’s this sense that it’s just being exploited. It’s hard to witness such change without feeling a pang of disappointment. Donald Trump might be trying to redirect things, but it feels like we’ve lost something essential along the way.
On both sides of the political spectrum, there’s rampant animosity. Liberals and conservatives alike seem hell-bent on tearing the country apart. Some insist that America is no longer the greatest nation, claiming it’s not worth saving. They even suggest it’s time for a complete overhaul—just break everything apart and start fresh.
But honestly? I beg to differ.
No other countries have a constitution like ours. Rights that are guaranteed here aren’t upheld in many parts of the world.
We also embody this spirit of daring and innovation. In Japan, failing carries a heavy stigma—it brings embarrassment not only to the individual but to their entire family. In contrast, in America, failure is often seen as a badge of honor. It means you’ve taken a risk. Just picture a kid named Timmy, who at eight years old decides to set up a lemonade stand. Even if his mom is his only customer, that’s not the point. He’s out there trying, rolling the dice like a true entrepreneur.
Beyond our innovative spirit, we also contribute significantly worldwide. Sure, we have our flaws, but we’ve created and celebrated many things. Just think about it: who invented the golf match? The Scots. Who made it famous? John Daly. And while other cultures have made strides in cinema, we’ve given the world unique pop culture moments—even simple things like a funny movie about racing.
Moreover, America is a blend of both quirkiness and normality. Our nation is filled with a variety of characters, not strange in a negative sense, but delightfully unique. It’s this productive oddness that drives creativity and innovation—great ideas often emerge from individuals thinking outside the box.
Then there’s the backbone of America, the everyday people who help keep things running smoothly and ensure our communities remain beautiful and peaceful. It’s unfair to dismiss them as mere cogs in a machine. Their kindness, wealth, and generosity might seem common, but they truly hold everything together. Without them, the country might just devolve into chaos.
This July 4th, remember the good aspects of America. Sure, we’re grappling with numerous issues, and the future may appear daunting. But wallowing in cynicism won’t help. We could take a page from Toby Keith’s book, crack open a cold one, and celebrate Independence Day authentically. I cherish America, flaws and all.
